You want to be able to have difficult conversations without causing a relationship meltdown.

You like to think you can avoid the mess of disconnection in relationships.

But you can’t. 

The simple truth is relationships are difficult.

As you and your partner seek a deeper, more sustainable connection, you'll also experience uncomfortable yet necessary and powerful times of disconnect.

In recognizing the uncomfortable moments and reaching out – beyond your autopilot reactions and responses – real, relational healing happens. It’s about taking personal responsibility for creating a safer relationship by keeping the focus on what you have influence over: you.


I draw from a powerful "no bullshit" therapeutic methodolgy, Relational Life Therapy (RLT).

RLT will help you to... 

...make powerful insights, sustain lasting change and integrate healthy new relational skills into your daily life.

...address your most troubling issues head on and target your problem behaviors, underlying core issues and past traumas.

...move back into connection, work through infidelity and trust issues, increase intimacy, improve communication, and deepen relational integrity.

...hold yourselves, each other, and your relationship in warm regard.  

To learn more about RLT and it’s founder, Terry Real, click here.


Many of my clients report seeing significant shifts in the first few sessions. 

Most couples schedule 90-minute sessions, every other week. Some prefer to work on a more intensive schedule in private retreat style couples intensives. My goal is to get you to a place you no longer need my services as soon as possible. I work with all types of couples, including the LGBTQ community and diverse ethnic and religious backgrounds.