Connectfulness® is a research-based method for restoring the connection to the self, others, and the world.

Whether you’re coming to this work alone, with others in a relationship, or in relation to your work, it always plays out in three stages.

First we get a lay of the land. It sounds intuitive, but you’d be shocked by how many people try to solve their problems before they actually know what those problems are. In our work together, we’ll start by getting a clear picture of what’s really going on, where the issue comes from, and where it’s showing up in your life.

Next, it’s time to go deep and look at the foundations of how you relate. In this stage of our work together, you’ll develop the insight you need to keep your relationship with yourself thriving, instead of constantly looking to outside sources for guidance and fulfillment.

Finally, we restore your ability to relate and reconnect you to the root systems (resources) that will support you going forward.

From this practice of conscious connection — no matter what’s happening, who’s involved, or how you’re feeling — you’re able to come back to your center and restore your relationship with yourself and discern how you want to show up in relationships.


Relationship Therapy sessions are offered for individual adults and couples between the hours of 10am - 3pm on Mondays and Wednesdays & 12pm - 6pm on Tuesdays and Thursdays in Rebecca’s new paltz office or via secure virtual sessions — available residents of new york and colorado. There is often a wait for an opening in Rebecca’s schedule. Click here to book your interview.

CLICK HERE to Peek Inside Rebecca’s Office.

Sometimes a change in surroundings can make all the difference. Come away with your partner and combine the core elements of a spa retreat with a personalized deep dive into Connectfulness® couple therapy, and return home restored and deeply aware of your relational patterns. Available exclusively to one couple at a time, I’m only booking one of these Private Couple's Retreat Intensive experiences per month at Menla Resort and Spa in Phoenicia NY or in my private office in New Paltz, NY. Learn More and inquire here.

Professional Mentorship for therapists in private practice available at practiceofbeingseen.com


Rebecca accepts full fee at or before the time of service via cash, check, debit, cash, check, debit, VISA, MasterCard, Discover, American Express. FSA/HSA cards can also be accepted for therapy sessions. She does not bill for services, or carry account balances.

15-minute initial phone interview, FREE

45-minute session for individual therapy, $175

90-minute session for individual or couple therapy, $325

Contact Us for rates on customized Connectfulness® retreats and intensives


Rebecca does not accept insurance. Upon your request a superbill for therapy services will be provided so you can submit to your insurance company for possible reimbursement. Submitting a superbill for reimbursement may carry a degree of risk to confidentiality, privacy, or to future capacity to obtain health or life insurance or employment.

Medicare recipients: Rebecca has opted-out of providing services through the medicare program which means that out of network reimbursements will not be available.

Relationship Therapy may not be reimbursed by your insurance company. We make no guarantees about the level of reimbursement you may receive. It's your responsibility to research insurance coverage before beginning therapy. We recommend that you consult your insurer and research the following:

  • Do I have out-of-network mental health insurance benefits?

  • Are services rendered by a licensed clinical social worker covered?

  • Is any pre-approval required before obtaining out-of-network mental health services in order to be reimbursed?

  • If I have out-of-network insurance benefits, will I be reimbursed the full amount I paid or a portion?

  • Do I have a deductible and if so, what is it?

  • Does my insurer cover the procedural code 90847 AND the relational Z-Code 63.0 for relationship therapy?


New York State Licensed Clinical Social Worker (LCSW-R) #076600

Colorado State Licensed Clinical Social Worker CSW.09926033

Masters in Social Work, New York University 2003

Bachelors in Fine Arts, Ithaca College 1997

Certified in Relational Life Therapy (RLT) and Discernment Counseling.

Additional Post Graduate Training with Dr. Clarissa Pinkola Estés, The Center for Sexual and Relationship Therapy at Robert Wood Johnson Medical School under Sandra Leiblum, PhD, The Postpartum Stress Center under Karen Kleinman, Seleni Institute, The Gottman Institute, International Institute for Animal Assisted Play Therapy™, The American Board of Sports Psychology & CrossFit.

Graduate Fellowship at Memorial Sloan Kettering.

Additional training in leadership and experiential education with Outward Bound and Project U.S.E. and with TMI Project as a Workshop Leader.