Connectfulness® is a research-based practice that gets to the heart of relationship issues and helps you build skills to discern how you want to show up in relationships.

Whether you’re coming to this work alone, with others in a relationship, or in relation to your work, it always play out in three stages.

  1. First we get a lay of the land. It sounds intuitive, but you’d be shocked by how many people try to solve their problems before they actually know what those problems are. In our work together, we’ll start by getting a clear picture of what’s really going on, where the issue comes from, and where it’s showing up in your life.

  2. Next, it’s time to go deep and look at the foundations of how you relate. In this stage of our work together, you’ll develop the insight you need to keep your relationship with yourself thriving, instead of constantly looking to outside sources for guidance and fulfillment.

  3. Finally, we restore your ability to relate and start reconnecting grounding systems that will support you going forward.

From this practice of conscious connection — no matter what’s happening, who’s involved, or how you’re feeling — you’re able to come back to your center and restore your relationship with yourself.

Click here to watch a video of Rebecca explaining this work.


Relationship therapy sessions are offered for individuals and couples mid-week, daytime hours on Tuesdays, Wednesdays, and Thursday between the hours of 9 and 5 in Rebecca’s private therapy office or secure video conferencing (virtual therapy availability is limited to NY state residents)

Intensives are offered Friday-Monday at Menla Resort and Spa in Phoenicia NY

Professional mentorship is offered in group and individual settings virtually or in person, by appointment. Therapy is also offered to professionals in NY state, and a range of in-person/online workshops or events.

Rebecca is currently scheduling interviews for clients ready to begin working together in 2019. Click here to book your interview.


15-minute initial phone interview, FREE

45-minute session for individual therapy, $175

90-minute session for individual or couple therapy, $325

intensive sessions for individual or couple therapy also available.

Contact Us for rates on customized Connectfulness® retreats and intensives

Professional consultation rates begin at $222

We accept full fee at or before the time of service via cash, check, debit, cash, check, debit, VISA, MasterCard, Discover, American Express. FSA/HSA cards can also be accepted for therapy sessions. We do not bill for services, or carry account balances.


We do not accept insurance. Upon your request a superbill will be provided so you can submit to your insurance company for possible reimbursement. Submitting a superbill for reimbursement may carry a degree of risk to confidentiality, privacy, or to future capacity to obtain health or life insurance or employment.

Medicare recipients: Rebecca has opted-out of providing services through the medicare program which means that out of network reimbursements will not be available.

Relationship Therapy may not be reimbursed by your insurance company. We make no guarantees about the level of reimbursement you may receive. It's your responsibility to research insurance coverage before beginning therapy. We recommend that you consult your insurer and research the following:

  • Do I have out-of-network mental health insurance benefits?
  • Are services rendered by a licensed clinical social worker covered?
  • Is any pre-approval required before obtaining out-of-network mental health services in order to be reimbursed?
  • If I have out-of-network insurance benefits, will I be reimbursed the full amount I paid or a portion?
  • Do I have a deductible and if so, what is it?
  • Does my insurer cover the procedural code 90847 AND the relational Z-Code 63.0 for relationship therapy?