Do you feel like you can’t find the love you crave? Or maybe it’s right there in front of you and you struggle to let it in.

You're stuck in a loop of feeling unseen, unheard and misunderstood in love and relationships.

It doesn’t feel good and you know it doesn’t have to be this way.

You too can find love and enjoy relationships.  You just might need a little support along the way, because it’s very likely that the relationship in the most need of repair, is your relationship…with you.

I’m glad you’ve found me. I’d love to help.

I’m a relationship therapist in New Paltz, NY and for many years I’ve been working with and studying people and couples in relationship. I’m in the process of developing a method, or practice, that I call Connectfulness that centers around helping people infuse more meaning, playfulness, and intimacy into relationships, family and daily life.

Here’s the thing, all of the attachments and losses you’ve experienced throughout your life —especially with the people with whom your stories entwine— are the heart of who you are.

When we work together we’ll explore the stories you tell yourself and how those stories affect your relationships. Everything from your own birth and childhood, through your emerging awareness of your own sexual self, your exploration of parenthood, mating and life partnership… You’ll learn to regulate the overwhelm and vulnerability that keeps you and your relationships stuck in a loop. You’ll find your way back to yourself and into relationships that fulfill you.