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Discover and interweave a Connectfulness practice into your love and life.

Connectfulness is a playful practice of being seen that inspires curiosity — the exploration of creativity and flow — a key ingredient in intimate, meaningful, sustainable relationships.

We offer a wide range of resources, events & services to inspire + cultivate the inspiration you need to lean into more sustainable, playful, meaningful relationships


We bet you spend something between “too much” and “not enough” of your limited resources tending to your relationship, your family, your work, and all of the other little details of life.

No matter what, it almost never feels “just right.” Each day feels like a struggle. And love and togetherness so often get lost in the chaos.

You want love, intimacy, and connection.

Problem is, you’re not exactly sure what that looks and feels like in the midst of a modern family’s life.

Love is not necessarily romantic. Intimacy is not always sexy. And connection is nothing like what they show in the movies.

You can find satisfying and lasting love, intimacy, and connection in the midst of the mess of family life.

How? It just takes some practice.

Connectfulness is the intimacy, love, and connection practice you’ve been longing for

In your ideal family, everyone works together to discover shared dreams and makes sure that all people feel seen and heard and loved and secure.

Connectfulness can help you build a partnership and a family where that goal is a sustainable reality.

And the best part? The way you, your partner, and your kids create that ideal world is through play.

Play is the ritual, the glue, and the practice. When you learn how to make play your most important relationship tool, you’re living and loving a Connectful life.

Make  love, intimacy, and connection a priority. Book a session, take an online class, or join a retreat.


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I’m Rebecca Wong, a relationship therapist, consultant, and speaker.

I’m here to help you play more and connect more deeply with the people you love.

I’m also the creator of Connectfulness, a research-based practice that encourages you to explore and embrace every aspect of your humanity – including everything that’s marvelous and all that’s messy.

My mission is to help you escape feelings of lack and overwhelm and fall in love again with the life you live and the people who matter most.



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