enduring love stories

Connectfulness is a playful practice of being seen that inspires curiosity — the exploration of creativity and flow — a key ingredient in intimate, meaningful, sustainable relationships.

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We bet you spend something between “too much” and “not enough” of your limited resources tending to your relationship, your family, your work, and all of the other little details of life.

No matter what, it almost never feels “just right.” Each day feels like a struggle.

You want more inspiration, flow and truth.

You want to spend more time and energy with the people and things that matter most.

Problem is, you’re not exactly sure what that looks and feels like in the midst of modern life.

The everyday love story you need is not necessarily romantic or sexy —it’s nothing like what they show in the movies. In fact, your very own unique and enduring love story can thrive in the midst of the mess of modern life.

How? It just takes some practice.

Connectfulness is the practice you’ve been longing for.

Play is the ritual, the glue, and the practice. When you learn how to make play your most important relationship tool, you’re living and loving a Connectful life.

Make love, intimacy, and connection a priority. Book a session, take an online class, or join a retreat.


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I’m Rebecca Wong, a relationship therapist, consultant, and speaker.

I’m here to help you play more and connect more deeply with the people you love.

I’m also the creator of Connectfulness, a research-based practice that encourages you to explore and embrace every aspect of your humanity – including everything that’s marvelous and all that’s messy.

My mission is to help you escape feelings of lack and overwhelm and fall in love again with the life you live and the people who matter most.


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