Relationships are difficult.

Every relationship goes through cycles of connection and disconnection.

We’re taught to think of relationships like they’re static states of being, but they’re actually ecosystems that go through repeated cycles of closeness and discord. For most of people, these normal and necessary seasons of growth end up being the downfall of their relationship. Why? Because we aren’t taught enough about how to navigate repair.

There’s something you can do about it.

Discord is built into the very nature of relationships. When you understand the natural cycles of relationships throughout your life, and reconnect with you, you’ll develop the ability to slow down to build greater resilience and trust that you can navigate repairs.

The truth is discord and repair can lead you into greater intimacy, with yourself and all of your relations. If you don’t learn how to navigate discord and repair, disconnection will knock you sideways every damn time. And that’s going to ooze into every other area of your life. You see, you might think that all you have is a problem with your relationship, but...

There’s a bigger picture here.

It all comes down to how you navigate mismatch and repair, connection and authenticity.

So many of us try to go it alone and we get stuck in old patterns, believing outdated stories, responding to things that happened years ago instead of what’s going on right now. And that leads to greater disconnection. Relationship via reaction rather than response.

You can address these issues separately, constantly trying for a little improvement on one here, the other there, and spending a whole lot of time and energy along the way.

Or you can get to the heart of the matter with a Connectfulness® practice and come back into connection with yourself, your relationships, and your legacy.