You’ve got big work to do in the world — but your limiting beliefs are in the driver’s seat.
Join a collective of self actualizing therapists, healers and creative professionals to release blockages and cultivate visions. We’ll help you to put right action behind your visions. Create inspired new offerings. Hone and share your message with confidence and clarity. We’ll support and bolster you as you dive wholeheartedly into the work your soul is being called to. And in doing so, you’ll experience more alignment and integration between your professional identity and the rest of your life. You’ll build a livelihood that you can truly sustain, and tend to your-self and the relationships that support you without missing a beat.
Who Are You?
Consider this question an invitation to take just a moment to step away from all the things that distract you from playing bigger, to set aside your fears and “what ifs”, and listen to that quiet voice deep inside you –– the one that resonates with the very core of your soul, the one that knows you and quietly, confidently, without striving or fear, can say, “I am.”
This is an invitation to reconnect with your core.
Many people don’t have a very good answer to the question of who they are. In fact, they read that question and fall into a whole rabbit-hole of other questions, like “Who am I to be providing the work I provide?”, “Who am I to be sharing this message?”, “Who am I to my clients and my peers?”, and “Who am I to play bigger?”
That’s a problem.
Because if you’re not sure who you are, and you can’t stand firmly in your wholeness and change-making gifts, the very best you can bring to the world is half-hearted help from a small, stuck version of yourself.
And from a business perspective, if you don’t know who you are, how can you possibly convey that to anyone else? If you don’t know who you want to attract, how can you possibly attract them? You end up spinning your wheels, trying one thing after the other and wondering why none of it really seems to work.
Until you’re able to break out of small, stuck, and spinning your wheels, you’re going to struggle to find clarity and alignment, and you sure as hell won’t be able to do your biggest work.
To step out into that biggest version of yourself, you have to start by looking within.
The process is integration. The practice is Connectfulness®
The more you integrate your stuff (all those things that keep you disconnected from your deepest self), the more you’re able to present your whole self to your work.
But you can’t just work on your “work self” — because as convenient as it would sometimes be to separate the different areas of ourselves, your loves, life, and legacy work are all intertwined. Disconnection and dis-integration in one area will necessarily affect all the others, just how fostering greater connection in one area will improve the others.
That’s where Connectfulness® comes in.
This signature method is designed to bring you back into alignment with your deepest self, transforming fear and limiting beliefs into helpful guides, helping you foster relationships that support you, and developing your intuition so you never have to worry about being stuck again.
We’ll integrate your personal and professional visions using an evidence-based methodology so that you can perform your best work enjoyably and effectively.
It’s about slowing down, simplifying, understanding your own process, and getting rid of the “shoulds” for the things that are actually aligned with you.
I’ll be honest ... it’s not your typical “hustle and heart” stuff.
Look, there are thousands of people out there who will teach you how to create a very convincing, saleable persona. But the problem with that is it’s just that — a persona. It’s not you. You don’t need to create a new personality to do your biggest work, you need to reconnect to that incredible, divinely-inspired one you’ve already got.
Our work together is about clearing out the cobwebs that keep you from that self so you can undertake a restoration of the “I am” that’s always been there.
It’s about moving from “Who am I?” to “I am.”
Are you ready to get out of your own way, lead from your knowingness, and start bringing your change-making gifts to the world?
I’m Your Guide, REBECCA WONG
I’m a relationship therapist, mentor, and creator of Connectfulness® method for restoring the connection to the self, others, and the world. My experiential teaching style draws from a range of leadership roles I’ve held over the past decades ranging from my early days as a Wilderness Field Instructor to my recent moonlighting as a TMI Project Workshop Facilitator.
After years of witnessing clients and having deep conversations about life, love, and legacy work as the host of the (now archived) Practice Of Being Seen podcast and (coming soon) Connectfulness Practice® podcast, I realized that all the big things we struggle with — fear, imposter syndrome, not-enoughness, you name it — all come back to the same thing: disconnection.
I created the Connectfulness® method to bypass all the symptoms of disconnection and address the root cause, allowing you to work towards wholeness in all areas of your life. The therapists, healers and creative entrepreneurs I work with are ready to get out of their own way, cultivate a life and livelihood filled with meaningful work, connectful relationships and vast visions.
I’m excited to help you create your own Connectfulness® practice.
Our Collective Meets Twice-Monthly.
We’ll begin each collective meeting with a greeting and a free-flow prompt to bring us into a state of deepened self observation and stillness to explore the obstacles and distractions that keep you from your true self.
We explore a range of topics and invite guests to help prompt our collective think. Topics you can expect we may explore: relationships, integrity, imposter syndrome, leadership, boundaries, wildness, creativity, sex, privilege, power, money, diversity & shame.
To grow, you need to get out of your own way and break out of the comfort zone you’ve grown accustomed to because it limits you.
We’ll take turns sharing and receiving collective reflections. We see our self in the reflections we allow in. And we recover our true self, collectively.
We’ll create structure to keep you from getting distracted. And a support system to challenge old beliefs that are no longer serving you. Beliefs that feed your persnickety imposter syndrome, haunting you with messages like “you’re not good enough”, “you should do more…”, “…know more”, “…be more” ...all those reasons you fear taking the next step.
Space to Grow
Dive in. Shine a light on your dreams and blockages alongside an intimate community. Peers wading into the marvelous mess of it all beside you. Here you can discover how to weave your story into your visions of growth.
who the collective is for…
Therapists, healers + creative entrepreneurs, powerful instigators of change, rebels and dreamers who need a little nudge to believe in their innate wisdom and a community to remind them of their greatness when they stumble. We do expect a certain comfort level with introspective deep dives, a deep familiarity with the intimacies of the therapeutic/healers process, an ability to be present, a willingness to go deep and endure the discomforts that may arise, and a readiness to explore the work you’re yearning to put into the world. All members will be mindfully vetted by Rebecca.
what the collective offers…
Permission to take the needed time and space to nurture and grow your big ideas. We’re going to plant seeds and watch then grow! In our circle, it’s safe to be vulnerable and to share ideas that are still in process. In fact, vulnerability is essential to the special magic we co-create together. With the support of a special collective of peers and high level mentorship, this is your chance to find and strengthen your voice. To ask yourself the sticky-sweet questions like: What do you stand for? What shadows seek your acknowledgement and exploration? How can fear be transformed into insights for you to develop your professional, personal, and creative presence? We harness Connectfulness® principles to help you notice and draw out these elements of your story.
what you can expect…
You’ll increase your exposure, enhance your self care practices, and cultivate your ability to show up. We’ll dive into the shadows of the collective experience in community. We explore common themes like isolation, impostor syndrome, trusting your intuition, making space to grow, integrating your work and life, standing in your truth, presence, how to maintain focus on one thing, discern what influences the way you show up, in your live, in your work, in the world, and so much more!
Our collective circles meet twice monthly for 10-months. If you choose the upgrade, you’ll dive in even deeper during your monthly 1:1 focus sessions with Rebecca. This is not therapy or coaching: it's peer-to-peer masterminding with a powerful dose of Rebecca’s guidance to help evoke transformation in your life, relationships and business.
your website as a container for your visions…
Transform the process of developing your website. Your website is an organic, creative container — filled with visions and manifestations for your business growth. It illustrates your professional offerings and weaves together a wholehearted story reflecting you and those you serve. It’s meant to connect the dots, go deeper, and dive into the story of who you are, what you do, who you serve and WHY you are doing it. Website consultation is available as an upgrade to collective members as a tool to help you create the container to see your visions come to life.
We welcome new members to our collective quarterly and we require a 1-year commitment, making space for 2 months of down time throughout the year — spread over summer and winter holidays — because we really believe in the power of commitment as well as carving intentional space for rejuvenation, rest and reassessment
When you join the twice monthly collective circle you choose between:
10 monthly payments of $93
or a single yearly payment of $873
upgrades available may include website consultation and monthly 1:1 focus sessions — limited availability — along with the twice monthly collective circle. Stay tuned/sign up below to be the first to know when more details are released.
our refund policy...
Your purchase is non-refundable. That said, we get that sometimes life happens. If you find yourself in a position of being unable to participate please contact us.
Register for the SIGNATURE HEART + SOUL BUSINESS RETREAT and receive a special rebate coupon + early access to the Connectfulness® Collective.
with Rebecca Wong + Annie Schuessler
Menla Mountain Resort | Phoenicia, New York | April 25-28, 2019
The Connectfulness® Collective’s twice-monthly circle Opens February 2019
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KIND WORDS from pROFESSIONAL clients
“Thank you. Thank you. Thank you! This [mentorship] program came at the exact time I needed it. You helped me get out of my head and my scrambling for the ‘right’ way to do things. Through this process, I learned to trust myself more, to give myself permission to change course and change my mind, and to find my voice and my message. I’ve learned that who I am is enough and what I do is enough. Your guidance has been gentle and challenging. You didn’t let me opt out or play small. Thank you for helping me see myself and my potential.”
“Rebecca, your work is so important and I am so blessed to have you as a mentor + teacher. You helped me find my way when I felt lost. This [mentorship] program has given me permission to be me. Permission for me to do what makes me happy. Permission to show up and do my soul’s work. You have helped me find my tribe and a place I belong. A place where I am not too much. This program was the missing piece I needed to move forward and take the leap. I am thankful for this experience.”
“Amazing love and guidance! The [mentorship] program allowed me to see and embrace my soul desires and believe my purpose on this universe will be discovered, unveiled and celebrated! Rebecca your love and passion to us these 23 weeks has been more than I could have imagined. Thank you for being YOU.”
“What a soulful and wise weekend [to close the mentorship program] full of teachings and slowing it down and working on what we each needed to do for ourselves. We had time to work on our website as much or as little as we needed to. We collaborated and listened to each other as we brainstormed and added and deleted and enhanced what we had. It was an incredible give and take. In between there were gatherings and discussions and sound healings and walks and intimate moments that bonded us and made us laugh. Made this cohort a true integrative experience. Rebecca is a intuitive teacher and mentor and seamlessly Brough our group to such a fantastic closure. Thank you to all the members of this group. Such a powerful and valuable experience.”
“The mentorship program EXCEEDED my expectations. Honestly, I didn't have incredibly clear expectations stepping into the program now I feel as though the ground work that was laid, the digging that was done, and the challenging that come along with it all served me in deepening my sense of who I am as a clinician and a human...and walking into the process of integrating those more and more. I needed to have someone in my life who wasn't my therapist but still understood things through a trauma-informed, creative perspective and wasn't my best friend but still understood things through caring deeply about me. This program saw me through a few incredibly difficult seasons of life in which I typically would have shut down and shut people out. Instead, I had Rebecca in my pocket to guide me through tears and fears into truth and I had a group of other supportive women reminding me of my courage. With the support of Rebecca's mentorship and the presence of the other group members, I was able to practice doing life differently, balancing the personal and professional in a way that felt more grounded and true. I want more of that. I need to keep practicing!"
“I joined the mentorship program knowing I needed guidance with private practice. Starting a private practice had not been what I imagined nor expected it to be and I was starting to doubt my entrepreneurial ventures. I was captivated in joining CMMP given my past 1:1 work experience with Rebecca and being energetically drawn to her work; it just felt right, a path that I was guided to take. And by taking inspired action, I allowed my self to embrace a new journey. Though I didn’t quite know what to expect and, as I process my experience over the last 22 weeks, I realized I gained more than I had imagined. Such as insight into unconscious areas of my life that parraled my fears of being seen, the ability to work through these fears by embracing many parts of myself both personally and professionally and integrating how I use these insights into how I show up as a clinician. I further gained leaning into a supportive community of bad ass women that held space for our intimate talkings. Lastly, I accomplished building my website so that now, I can allow myself to be seen. This, was possible with CMMP."
"My work with Rebecca began when the idea of starting my own practice was a dream that I didn’t quite believe was possible. Initially, as I explored the dream and my why behind it, Rebecca was there to support me, give it to me straight and guide me as I got underneath the fears that were holding me captive in inaction. We dove deep into who I was being called to serve, what needed to be healed to do so and concrete tasks that needed to be taken care of to get the ball rolling. Over the next handful of months, my practice launched and I saw my first clients. During this time, consultation with Rebecca became a sacred time of unraveling my insecurities, recognizing how and why I continued to get caught in their grip, and how to feel safe and effective continuing to show up, day in and day out. Rebecca helped me connect with myself, my story and my roadblocks in ways that I have never experienced before and in ways that have not only transformed the way I show up for my clients, but the way I show up for myself."
"I've been to therapy when I needed personal healing and I've had business coaching when I needed support on my entrepreneurial journey. But, working with Rebecca has been the best intersection of the two. She truly understands that in order to show up in your life as a successful business owner you've got to not only have the business strategies down (which she is an ace at helping you sort through) but you've got to figure out how to move through the blocks that keep you from executing those strategies. Rebecca has helped me merge my personal healing story with my business success story to get me to show up more authentically for myself, my clients, and my business. She's an investment I encourage all my fellow healers to give to themselves when they're ready to step into authentically showing up and being seen for all you amazingness without having to leave any pieces of you behind to do so!"