Yes, the world feels out of control.
Few of us are getting much of what we want these days.
But let’s start with you.
How do you get what you want in your relationship?
I ask because our relationships are NOT out of reach or out of our control.
In fact relationships are one of the few areas we can profoundly impact day to day.
Sometimes we think we need to shut down the part of ourselves that still wants connection because there’s so much else requiring our attention.
Or because the silence, or the arguments or the escalating discussions that hit the same familiar wall don’t seem to offer us a way forward.
Our relationships are being tested. It’s true. Challenges to our lives, day in and day out, to our equilibriums, persist. And unfortunately in the hardest of times it is often our relationships that seem easiest to put off dealing with. But when they’re working it’s our relationships that give us baseline comfort and empower us to meet these challenges with clarity.
So stay tuned.
In future posts I’ll be telling you more about a weekend of just you, or just you and your partner, and a team of three relational life therapists to guide you through every step and offer skills to make the process understandable and doable. Immediately.
It will be a time to really unpack the habits that haven’t been working and replace them with strategies that will change the course of your relationship to yourself, to your partner and to the world.
Speak Soon,
